Its really heart breaking, when one goes through this situation in life .
I dont have any experience about this .
But my mother did went through this !!!

And not just 1 and a half years ....
But more than 4 years !!

Even the Doctors said that there is no hope !!
And it was impossible ,
if we look at it in the manner of Science .

The blood group was making the difference ....
The Rhesus blood group combination ,
which my parents have !!

And so my mother after hearing all this ..
she didn't lose hope .

She prayed a lot ....
My whole family prayed regarding this matter ,
and all their prayers were answered ...

My mother's tears were seen by our Lord ...
and thats why i am here with you all today !!

My mother have told me that through what all things she had been ....
but JESUS brought her through all that !!

Have hope in HIM .
Have faith and pray ,
believing that HE has given you your desire .

For HIM NOTHING ....... NOTHING
IS IMPOSSIBLE !!

I'll pray for you .

Sachu sister is very correct in this matter that you are not just the one going through this .

Even in my Church ,
there were 2 sisters going through this tough time in their lives .

And you wont even imagine that one of them was not having children for 14 years !!!!!!!
Can you believe it ??

And we all prayed ...
The whole Church did
And even fasted just for the victory over this issue .

And do you know what was the result of it ??
That sister has 3 twins !!!!!!!!
And all the 3 are healthy , beautiful kids .

And now the other sister also have a kid .

Praise GOD

Strengthen yourself , and pray without any doubts in your heart .

Dont ever say that ,
you have a barren womb !!
No .

Believe that you have a -
" BLESSED WOMB " .

There is a couple in our church who had their first baby only after seven years of marriage. There is another couple who had their babay after eight years of marriage.

1. See how many beloved sisters are there on this forum to encourage you and pray for you. This itself is wonderful!
2. See how many experiences are shared with you so as to enable you to gather trust and confidence in the Lord!
3. One of the greatest requirements in conception is the confidence of the couple. This is medically researched and proved. So you need to work on it and gather confidence in the Lord and face the situation.
4. Frustration, despair, depression etc. are your worst enemies and they will develop psychosomatic implications on your precious body created by the Lord and in which the Holy Spirit has taken permanent ebode, and will consequently affect your hormone system. This will have a lot to do with conception. So please confess these as sins and get victory and have a joyful and thankful life. This will definitely help.
5. You and your beloved need some physical examinations to be done by experts, no matter which part of the world you live. Please do that so that you will know if there are some deficiencies which can be remedied. It could be to you or to your beloved. This reality should be approached with courage and confidence in the Lord.
6. Sometimes, the answer to our prayers is a "QUICK YES", and some other times, it is "MAY BE" OR "LATER" OR "WAIT". Sometimes, it will be "NO". You and your beloved need to sit at the presence of the Lord and study the Word to understand and accept this reality. The Lord would give you this clear understanding as you study and pray together.
7. Our God is a God of waiting. You must be knowing (i) Abraham waiting for Isaac, (ii)Isaac waiting for Jacob and Easow, (iii)Joseph waiting to become Prime Minister and to fulfil his dreams, (iv)David waiting for the throne, (v) Jesus appearing as human thousands of years after the promise was given, (vi)the whole creation and the church have been waiting for about 2000 years for the return of the Lord and the redemption of the earth, and so on. These are all lessons for you.

Please cry like Hanna (I Samuel 1) and promise the Lord that you will give the child to the Lord if you are so exercised, and then don't be an Indian Giver. (Don't take back what is promised to the Lord). This is a good Biblical example.

Remember, each month you have an opportunity, created biologically by the Lord in you, to begin anew with the Lord in exercising your faith. If he says "wait" during one month, you cling on to Him in faith anew for the next month and keep going until the Lord fulfils the desires of your heart.

Please be careful not to blame your beloved for the situation because what is happening is with the expressed knowledge of the Lord and that He has permitted it to be like this so far. This is for you to trust Him for your tommorrows. He will not forsake us nor leave us empty handed. He will fulfil the desires of the hearts of His beloved children and He gives us these desires in our hearts. We are asked to "Hope Against Hope" in all circumstances. There is no hopelessness in Jesus Christ. Take Him by faith and He will meet you there. Please also meditate on James 4:13-15.

After our first child was born, the expert gynaecologists said it was biologically IMPOSSIBLE for us to get another child. We prayed. And to the utter surprise and shock of the experts, the Lord gave us two more children. But we had to wait for 6 years to see the second one and then 4 years for the third. "Jesus Christ the same Yesterday, Today and Forever: Heb. 13:8

It's so good to hear positive thoughts from my sisters.

I am much controlled now. I don't despair and my husband comforts and supports me too.

Philip, regarding medical assistance, I've a polycystic ovary. It means that that there is more than one cyst in my ovaries. I have been under treatment for 1 year six months.

But I have stopped it. One reason 'coz I was tired of all the procedures and testss. This is not just my decision. But both mine and my husband's.

We have put our trust totally in the Lord. We are waiting for his time. "A quiver full of arrows". In his own time he makes all things beautiful. As one minister said, we are blessed by the Lord to undergo such a situation.

i think it is imperative that we realise that the purpose of a Christian marriage is not procreation it is ONENESS.

Amen to all that you have said above. It's been 5 months since I posted this topic. My desire in posting this was to be strengthened for I knew I was falling into depression. It was worth it.

We'll complete two years of marriage this week. Looking back, I can see myself in different stages. Worried, anger, depressed, hope and then faith in the Lord who has promised "never to leave me alone". Now I thank the Lord that he has sent this thorn in my life. For it has made be grow more closer to him.

There were times when I had screamed and cried out to the Lord. He has and can do miracles. So why has he forgotten me. And then I was reminded of King Hezekiah. He had fasted and prayed for the extension of his life. And the Lord granted it to him. But during this period, a son was born to him - Mannesh, who walked wickedly in the sight of God. (2 Kings Chps 18 - 20)

Well, I then decided it is far better to wait for the Lord' time rather than put up a tantrum and receive and then later regret. My one prayer is that the Lord will give us the grace to wait. Not only to us but to our families too as they too are waiting for their first grandchild.

I personally know two couples to whom God had taken around 4Yrs and 3Yrs in the other case for answering their prayers for a child.

Knowing about their need, without their request, I started pleading in my personal prayer for them continuously for more than 1 year. I thank God that God has answered my prayer and also ofcourse the prayers of lot of other fellow believers who knows them.

FOR GOD NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

This is my personal experience:- You could start praying "Give me strength to see your 'invisible' hand in all the circumstances through which I have to pass". This reiterates my belief that my Lord is with me in ALL the circumstances of my life.

WHATEVER happens in the life of those who believes/trusts in Him is ultimately going to be for our prosperity!

However, I must apologise to my sisters for not sharing this news to you before.

Praise be to the Lord. He has heard our prayers and has blessed my womb. I'm pregnant - 6 months.

As I look back, I'm so glad that it took so long. The reward for patience is so sweet. I can feel my baby move and everytime it brings a smile and a tear.

We have a Lord who answers our prayers. Not only mine but my cousin too who had been married for 6 years.

When the Lord bless, he sometimes pours.

Thank you sisters once again for your prayers.

So thrilled to hear your news!!

Just recently I was reading about Hannah...and you remind me of her! God does have his perfect plan & perfect time, doesn't He?!

You'll have to update us when your baby has arrived!

Take Care & God Bless

Christian Love,

Elaine

I am a firm believer in God's miracles because I am the recipient of such miracles myself, namely my two children, born after 4 years of repeated miscarriages and heartache. I held on to the promise in Psalms that I would be a 'joyful mother of children' and God made it happen. I also saw specialists who helped get my hormone levels on track, but I fully believe that while God brings you help in many forms (doctors, etc), He himself is the one who gives life.