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Hello All! This is my 1st time on here so please bear with me. I'm a christian woman who has a stupid question that I need another sister in the faith to help me with. I recently went through 8 major operations with the last one resulting from a c-section gone wrong. I ended up having my left tube and ovary still intact, and the rest removed. I prayed to god some time ago, to have another baby but it seemed that all was lost, and not by my choice. For the past few weeks, I've had every pregnancy symptom known to man, and I wasn't even thinking about it, so I know It's not psychosis taking effect! Lol! As a matter of fact, that was the last thing on my mind. My question is.....can god still do it for me? Can he still bless my womb with the child I so desire? My husband and friends say they see a glow about me, and has noticed a visible change, and I'm emotionally charged for no reason. Guys, I want to know....are ALL things truly possible or does it stop here. I've heard that abdominal and successful ectopics are rare but possible. I want God to bless us and my husband is willing to believe god can do it, but why am I so doubtful that God won't do this for me because my uterus is gone? I want him to, but I guess I've been discouraged bc of what natural medical science says, but I know that God is bigger than that. So what's wrong with me believing him for it? Sisters, can he do it for me, like those women in australia, africa, canada, etc? Thanks
As I read your enquiry, I thought I would share my personal experience with infertility if it can be of any help to you. I had shared this experience earlier in a previous thread. But here I will go into more detail if it can be of help. Due to a medical condition in my childhood Doctors had to remove an ovary thus reducing my chance of getting pregnant to 50%. Later came medical conditions that prevented me from trying at all. After years of treatment for other medical condition when we were allowed to try to conceive, came string of miscarriages. More problems were revealed where medicines were of no help. I was not getting any younger and I could clearly hear my biological clock ticking. Doctors didnít give me any hope of conceiving naturally other than trying IVF where success was not guaranteed and had its sets of complications.
We came to a point where I had to give up having a child on my terms. I had to surrender my desire to Godís terms. Exactly a year later after I stopped all my treatments, miracle of miracles happened. I conceived. My doctors were apprehensive. They didnít believe I would carry my baby to full term. That is what Science said.
But God had a different plan for us. Our son was born late into our marriage after all the medical complication Science could think off. He meant our son to be ours and it was His will for us. Science may say one thing, but Godís will for us is ours. In these situations having a blind faith in God is the only way to go. He is our creator. He is the one who formed us. ďFor You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my motherís womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully madeĒ Psalm 139:13-14.
If God could give Sara a baby in her old age, He is still living and is capable of doing that to you & I. Doctors wisdom is limited and fallible. Our Lordís is not. He may decide to give us a child or he may not. God in his infinite wisdom decides that. We may not understand completely what His perfect will is for us when we go through these trying times. But believe in Him. When we feel like there is no hope, God always has other plans for us.
One thought that always came to mind when I was in doubt was either I can choose to believe medical science or I can choose to believe God whatever His will may be for me. Let me give you a verse that has encouraged us through this difficult journey: ďThe LORD will perfect that which concerns me; your mercy, O LORD, endures foreverĒ Psalm 138:8.
Do let me know if I can be of any more help to you. Surely you will be in my prayers from here onwards.
There are no stupid questions, especially when they come from hearts so desirous of things that glorify God. God is the master of miracles and specializes in things thought impossible. God is the Lord of life. i'll be praying for you, too.
Reply by : truebeliever
25 Jun 2008 6:35:25 AM
I think you should get a test done to confirm whether you r pregnant or not. Miracles do take place but it takes a lot of prayer & faith to make it work. You can take down a couple of verses from the bible post it where you are bound to read them, keep saying those words of faith. It would better when husband can support you in your faith.God bless!
Reply by : ayyopavam
3 Jul 2010 9:25:16 AM
god is great and he can do all. same time i advise u to go for a ultra sound scan and find it what is that realy. after remooving uterees it is not quit possible for pregnency and there is chanses for any kind of tumor. if uters is not remooved there is chance for pregnency with one overy and tube. oohhhhhhhhh am sorry this Q was in 2008. and my u get the sesult now , pls sent u r final result here to know trhat,